A little encouragement requested
So its a small problem but its weighing me down.
I came across this super cute looking guy and i really liked his aura.
Ive been trying to find a spouse since a long time, as many of you might know.
Anyway. I really found a dream ignited when I saw his pic. Its of course a crush i was having. Because I dont always find myself drawn to a lot of people. I am selective in spite of my hungering for love.
I reached out to him in a nice polite way expressing interest.
He didnt respond. And since its been a few days I dont think hes interested
I guess I might be feeling a little blow to my self worth.
Obviously im not shattered. Just a little disappointed. I dont always find people a match for myself and when I do, I guese the other side doesnt.
Hopefully one day there will be a mutual attraction and interest. Id like to keep hope. Its just.... it gets hard keeping faith in my stars ..
Any words of encouragement will be appreciated ... I really am grateful to this community always and always
@Creamyyy
I am sorry you did not get a more positive response. it is always disappointing and hard to have your interest dismissed.
I can tell you about the best relationships in my life were with someone whom on surface I did not think of them as anything but a friend. I am not always good are reading others from a distance or photo and instead it was getting to know them from inside out.
So hard to do it seems but when the relationship develops slowly. You will look up and they are super attractive to you too.
Hey yes i like going other way around .... when the heart becomes more attractive first and then the looks... although it could work the conventional way too..... like in this case, i ddint feel attracted only to his face but to his aura...
Thank you for the support and for sharing your story. It makes me feel hope :)
@toughTiger6481
@Creamyyy
I am glad that you shared your situation with us. It is always good reach out to other people when we are down and out. you are certainly on the ball here! I think what first struck me, was your comment ; "I came across this super cute guy...a dream ignited when I saw his pic." I wonder how many of the other gals are feeling that same way? Is it possible that this guy has so many other options that he can be particularly choosy? Your post did not mention anything about his character, integrity, work ethic, community involvement... From what you have said so far, I do not see how you will benefit from this guy. All I see is a bruised ego. Now lets look at that hunger for love. Would it be possible for you to explore that before you get involved with someone? If you go into a relationship hungering for love, you will just suffocate the other person. A lot to think about. Every day is an opportunity to improve ourselves. Your being here demonstrates that you do that well!
Getting to know a person is the second step. And that was the intention indeed.
The bruised ego is indeed true. Its also more like the hope of a nice dream ending. Cant help feeling a certain way.
Thank you
@caringShoulder1357
This post really resonated with me and I am really happy that you shared. I was seeing a girl for a weeks and last night she texted me out of the blue that she isn’t feeling the connection she is looking for.
I started to really care about her and have always longed for love… which is hard for me to express as a man. Anyway, I get your hunger for love and the weight of disappointment. One thing that has helped me is to be honest with myself about how I feel and try to stop investigating the situation.
Stay strong!
You sound like a good man and i hope you find someone amazing :)
Thank you for your support. I wont over inspect any further and worry about my lovability :)
@MattyR978
@Creamyyy
I'm sorry you were disappointed.
I'm proud of your courage.
And I absolutely know you are one of the kindest, gentlest, most loving people I have had the pleasure to meet here at cups, honest, genuine and down to earth and you deserve the best anytime has to give 💛
You make me feel better. Youre an angel yourself
love <3
@Amanda84
@Creamyyy
