A question to all men.
A question to be answered honestly to all.men.
Can you be in a relationship where your woman cannot give you deeper physical intimacy( you know what I meant) for a year or two because she needs time to work on her physical traumas? Will you be able to withhold all you desires till that time she heals?
Why or why not?
@lovelyPower9238
That's such a powerful and important question.
As my experience an honest, emotionally grounded response would be:
"Yes, I can. If I truly love someone, then her healing becomes just as important to me as her presence. Intimacy isn’t just physical it’s emotional, mental, and spiritual too. If the person I love is carrying trauma, then being patient, supportive, and gentle with her is not a burden it’s part of loving her deeply and completely. Desire doesn’t vanish, but love teaches restraint and prioritizes care over impulse. I'd rather hold her hand through her pain than rush into something that would deepen it. Her comfort and trust mean more than temporary gratification. When she’s ready, we’ll arrive there together with even more strength, connection, and love than before."
This kind of love is rare, but it's real and she deserves nothing less.
Thank you for your answer🌷
@16peacefulBraveheart01 this was so beautiful. I'm at peace to know that this type of love still exists. 🙂
@Creamyyy
Glad to hear ☺️ that you believe in such love
@lovelyPower9238 I think that is a hard question to answer, because there are many variables. What would happen if it was the man who couldn't be active for a time? Anyways, I'm 45 and I've noticed that my drive isn't what it once was. And I think that is pretty typical as we get older anyways. My point is human love is complicated, and our bodies are complicated. I also believe that true love between a man and woman isn't just about you know anyways. If it was then all relationships would end, because our bodies don't always work right. Also our mental health tends to go up and down as well.
Thank you for the answer 🌷
@lovelyPower9238
My pleasure ☺️
@lovelyPower9238 I just try to do the best I can. I hope you figure out whatever it is you need too. 😊
Thank you for the answer 🌷
@lovelyPower9238 It depends totally. If the person loves you and understand you, he will love you more and try to make you more comfortable. He will put effort to make you fall in love with him. But if he is concentrated on his own "deep" intimacy, then does he really care about girl is more important question in my opinion?
Welcome!!
@lovelyPower9238 I can say I'm going through this at present. I have been trying really really hard to control my desires. It's nearly impossible. But the only way out is pleasing self.