Breakup
Hi I got broken up with like almost 2 months ago and this was my first genuine love she was everything ik I'm a kid but she was everything she understood me and the 6 months we were together we barely fought we were honest and we cud talk for hours it was perfect she broke up with me after when we were having our exams and i kind of overwhelmed her calling to much saying she might leave me and yeah and it is my fault i do admit it and she broke up at first she said it's bc I'm getting dependent and she can't handle two people's mental health and she said bc of her 12th grade where she has to choose a college and everything she can't handle a relationship I was her first crush she thought she was asexual and she is also a avoidant person but in the relationship it was liekt hese problems never came up and now after she broke up i asked her to reconsider and she was until i freaked out again and started saying how she seems fine happy even and that she doesn't care and yeah and she said she can't do this bc it's too overwhelming for her and she wish she cud and that she wanted to be friends and I said no it's been like a month *** and I'm doing so *** I miss her so *** much and she seems fine and I feel so worthless to her and she was always the one saying she wanted to end up with me and doing all these things and i wanted to end up with her as well or try and she said she'd always fight for me and then she didn't and I feel so worthless and replaceable and I texted her and she didn't reply and *** it's bc she is having her exams again in some time but I sent that message for a long time until i just deleted it and i deleted our texts bc i kept texting her and she got annoyed or overwhelmmed and I don't want her to have these negative emotions towards me and i asked people to ask her if she's over me and she is and it hurts sm and i wish she cared and ik she's moving away to college next year so now a relationship is just even harder and she's so different now she's such a different person and she was caring andoving and stuff and now she's a stranger who doesn't care about me and i have so many conflicting and weird emotions
@Shivamrit
Hiya. Sorry to hear this. Breakups are so rough!
Please be kind to yourself, one step at a time, as working through conflicting emotions takes time.
I just am in so much pain and she is fine and she is over me and I feel worthless and idk what to do or think it's been a month some days i doing good nd others I am on square one and i wish she fought and she meant sm and it's like she's there but she isn't i won't date her again but I wish everything was good enough for us to that it wasn't her 12th and she cud do this instead of leaving me randomly
@shruttut
When someone shows you with their actions they do not want to be with you then you have to accept it. Their loss.
I know you're hurting . I know you want to message and talk with a forever hope she change her mind .
You need to delete her contacts and leave her alone. You need to start healing and move on.
Hi . I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup . Must've been very hard .
You see , sometimes life puts you in positions where you have to learn the right lesson in the hardest way .
Do whatever it takes to distract yourself for now. I think you're having your 12th grades too ? Try to pursue a hobby or simply take a walk . And do not over text or over explain . Your energy shouldn't be taked for granted . Respect her boundaries as well as yours too .
Things will get better . Don't give up . You're not alone in this , love