Can't catch it
My soulmate, whatever light was left in my darkness has turned into apart of the darkness. I'm losing my relationship, it's fallen apart and I can't fix it anymore. Too much bad , but too hard to walk away. It all hurts so much 💔
@communicativeLola90
It hurts right now.
Because you care.
But walking away will enable you to heal and see what you actually need in a healthy relationship.
You deserve trust, love, honesty and respect 💕💜
@communicativeLola90
I’m really sorry you’re carrying this pain. When love breaks down, it feels like losing a part of yourself. Just remember, you don’t have to decide everything today. Breathe, feel, and take it one step at a time.
I’m in the same boat
@username0901
@username0901
Thank y'all so much
You recognize that you cannot fix it anymore. That acceptance is absolutely vital. You need to strategize now. Plan ahead. See if this relationship is of any benefit long-term and if you want this to keep going. It is easy for me to say "just leave" but different factors are at play. The relationship most likely is not how it used to be and the cons are outweighing the pros. It is draining the light out of you and whatever light you had left in your eyes and being wiped away by the situation you are currently in. It hurts to stay but it also hurts to leave so you're stuck with staying.
Take a deep breath and look at the life outside of the relationship. Your hobbies, your interests, your favorite shows, your favorite videos, your favorite jokes... a life outside of the relationship. Your childhood. Your younger you wouldn't want a life of suffering. They don't want to be in a situation where they need rescuing, but one thing lead to another and their current self is suffocating like trying to gasp for air while drowning. Read every tear they shed and hear their every plea. Save that child. Your inner child. You can't save the relationship, but you can save yourself.
@communicativeLola90
I'm sorry this is happening. It hurts like heck I'm sure but this too, shall pass. No pain is permanent and there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
This is where I’m at right now too. I’m currently pregnant and it’s really hard to stay motivated for my baby when his father and I are falling apart.
I really hope it works out well for you. You’re not alone
