Confused feelings
Hi
this probably won't paint me in a good light but 1. I don't know how to word it and 2. I'm trying to be honest about my feelings and I don't know if these are normal or truly toxic feelings..
Me and my partner split 4 days ago due to my actions online.. now she's talking to me sporadically still but has said she's talking to others too, i am truly something glad of this honestly..
For some reason when I think about that I get that tight chest anger.. I don't know why... I am honestly glad she has support..
1 to 1 or replies here are welcome but I can't wait 2-3 months for therapy or counselling to start to work this out..
@goldenBlackberry2406
I'm sorry you are both going through this but you need to both have an honest conversation and see why you needed to reach out to others online and what your relationship is missing, to move forward!
My actions online caused the end to the relationship. I know full well why it ended and I've started the process of getting better and being better..
I just don't know if these feelings make me a bad person and something I have to work on.. it feels like it's a very toxic trait though
@goldenBlackberry2406
It's not toxic, you knew it wasn't for you, yes, you could have handled it better and made it easier on your partner, but in the long-run, there's no reason to get in a relationship that nots for you 🥰
What kind of actions were they and if you both love each other wouldn't been the end. Find someone you love a person that doesn't have you feel that way.
What kind of actions were they and if you both love each other wouldn't been the end. Find someone you love a person that doesn't have you feel that way.
@goldenBlackberry2406 stay strong and move ahead
Doing my best.. just wish I could work out why I get this feeling when she says she's talking to others.
I know I KNOW its good for her and she absolutely without any shadow of a doubt needs and deserves it and I'm in no position to stop it, nor would I stop it, but that feelings keeps being there
If that makes sense
