Do Good Men Exist?
I’ve met a ton of men with anger issues, poor views of women, etc… Are there any good men left?
(Note: I’m not asking this looking for men! I just want to know if gentlemen, kind and gentle and loving men, are still out there… or if I should give up hope.)
@jesusredeemedme2425
Aw I think there are. There's all kinds of people in the world, with unique experiences, opinions, behaviour and being. Everyone having their unique quirks too.
But good people are around, it's just test-y trying to find them, or finding someone we connect with, I agree hehe. (':
I hope you do find some really loving, gentle, caring, generous people in your life. <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 yep there are many good men ❤ there are many good men and women. Although many bad too. But good will always beat bad
@jesusredeemedme2425
Good people, men and women, still exist definitely but so do bad people, and that’s both men and women as well. It’s just an unfortunate part of the reality that is our society that we have to live with no matter what.
Definitely. I’ve met several kind, honest and respectful men. I just ended things with one for reasons beyond his control and I now regret it a lot. So yeah, they’re out there. Being unfairly treated tbh..
Yes there are. Everyone has flaws, it’s important to put that in perspective too. Of course someone being abusive or having downright inexcusable behavior is something they need to work on in private outside of a relationship, no one is perfect.
@jesusredeemedme2425
It can be disheartening to come across individuals who don't reflect the kindness, gentleness, and respect we hope to find in others. However, it's important to remember that there are indeed many good men out there who embody these qualities.
Gentlemen who are kind, gentle, and loving do exist. They might not always be easy to find, especially amidst experiences with individuals who don't meet these standards. It might take time and patience to come across someone who aligns with your values and treats others with the respect they deserve.
In the meantime, focusing on self-care, surrounding yourself with positive influences, and engaging in activities and communities that resonate with your values can help attract like-minded individuals into your life. It's about staying hopeful while being discerning in your interactions and relationships.
Keep faith that there are good-hearted people out there who value kindness and respect, just as you do. Don't give up hope in finding meaningful connections built on mutual respect and love.
@jesusredeemedme2425 Yes. I can pat my chest and assure you "yes". Because where there is sunshine, there is shadow. Regardless of gender, the probability of good and bad people is proportional. On the other hand, good and bad people cannot be distinguished very accurately. For me, I can only say that I am not a bad person, because I don't kill, rob or fight. But I can't say that I am a good person, because I can't take every stray cat I see on the street home, maybe I will throw the garbage on the ground when I can't find a trash can. So, what kind of "good man" do you want? Just a man with normal moral values or a perfect man without any flaws? If it is the first type, then congratulations, there are many in the world.