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Do I hold on?

User Profile: quietSummer620
quietSummer620 August 6th

My ex decided to end our relationship and wants to remain friends. It’s been several months and it’s not good for my mental health. We don’t really speak anymore, just *** each other. Do I keep snapping him or move on? And if I move on, do I tell him or ghost him?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 6th

@quietSummer620

I think it is better to be upfront and tell him about your moving on.. but if he tries to appease to keep the door open for what he is getting out of the "friends" thing just walk away and block him on connections. 

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User Profile: quietSummer620
quietSummer620 OP August 25th

@toughTiger6481 figured I’d give an update. He didn’t care and thought talking to me was a waste a time. I blocked him after that.

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User Profile: HandOfTink
HandOfTink August 26th

If you already know it’s not good for your own mental wellbeing then cut all ties for good. If you aren’t okay essentially being f-buddies with him, tell him, or don’t. He ended things with you but still wants to do “couple” things with you, don’t let him have that power over you. You already know what you need to do, just do it when you’re ready to. Best of luck!