Do you think love changed you / ruined you?
I’ve been struggling for a long time with this question. I’ve experienced my “first love” about a year ago, lets say it was the first time I ever truly loved and been loved by someone, and since then every person and other relationship has been dull or hard for me and i get the feeling that I am no more a good partner or even a good person to be in a relationship with. I know that I don’t feel the same about that person anymore but yet every other more healthy connection brought something bad in me and I think im not capable of being a good partner anymore. I’ve learned what it feels to love and be undone by that love but now i cant make any steps forward. Anyone have a similar or same experience or maybe an advice?
@ZZen
I don’t have much advice for this aside from time truly does heal all wounds. I have been in love and been loved and with each time something does change without fail. And it’s normal to wonder if you will ever love again. Odds are you will - it just might look different the next time around. Love evolves as we do. If you ever want to chat shoot me a message
See love is a choice firstly not a feeling.. yeah u feel good in the zone of love.. but my friend don't let anyone change u.. don't let anyone to come in ur life so easily who will make ur life more difficult and leaves u alone with a negative impact.. instead make some healthy rules for urself and prepare urself before u choose someone to love ur whole life.. Trust builds gradually.. and if u feel u are failing in some area ur the best person to rectify it and move on bcz life is beautiful when u choose to love someone unconditionally and expecting the same thing from the opposite person could be tough bcz no one is same.. I hope u get someone u deserve and a real soul mate will never leave ur side in any circumstance.. keep supporting eachother keep a goal to achieve it together and that's how u will grow.. not in a perfect love but in a unconditionally love is what can save ur day..
I TOTALLY know what you're saying !!!!!!!
