H O P I N G
I'm already 43 years old. Is it wrong for me to dream of having a husband who is responsible and willingly provides for his family without making us feel guilty or constantly reminding us of his sacrifices?
I want him to take the initiative to find ways to provide for our family's needs. I hope he becomes hardworking and actively looks for ways to earn an income while waiting for his job to start in two months. Is it too much to ask for a husband who takes responsibility without being told?
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@MoonAndSunflower
it is what many want a partner who takes initiative to want to provide for their family. sadly, we cannot dream or wish that into them if they do not seem to feel on the same page and want to hustle to make it happen.
it is a lot of pressure on whatever spouse or partner is providing an income and i think it works best when it is more of a joint effort and both partners can bring something in.