Heartbroken

Two days I had dental surgery, nothing extremely major but enough where I had pain meds and can only eat liquid / soft foods for about a week. This is the first time in the 4 years my boyfriend and I have been together where I have needed someone to take care of me.

Immediately after the surgery he was so loving and attentive offering to get me whatever I need and buying me flowers and just holding my hand and I felt so happy knowing I had someone to count on while I was not feeling 100%.

Within a day he had completely changed. He was going out with friends to play golf. I did not mind at all. As he was leaving I said, “I’ll call you if I need you” he got so mad at me, saying “why would you call me. I’m out. I can’t help you” and just left. Then he is oblivious and is eating his McDonalds infront of me. Even though I cannot eat and I am starving.

Later he offered to get me a new ice pack and when he picked up the older one he said “it’s still cool” I told him I knew but I wanted a colder one. He threw it at me and said “you get up yourself and get it then.”

This morning I couldn’t make up my mind about something and he lost it on me. Yelling at me, saying I was annoying and a b*tch. Accusing me of wanting to start a fight, I answered with why would I want to start a fight I’m in a lot of pain.

He has just become a complete 180 of who he was just a day ago. I am not someone who has been whining and complaining I am *** up the pain and just getting on with it.

I am really unsure of our relationship now. If I can’t rely on him for this what can I rely on him for.