Help idk what to do
Hi so me and my boyfriend have been together for not too long but he makes me happy I’m giggled and kicked my feet like a little girl multiple times with him. We just get each other.
Now I’m not legally and adult if that helps with age but we are almost 2 years apart. Not bad and not inappropriate.
We just have one small issue l, he wants it to be an open relationship because we live in different continents( I’ve met him irl before so we’re good) He says that because he might end up liking a girl that’s near him and me being stupid said it was fine but it made me sad.
The offer is open for both of us so I could go out and do my own thing too but I’m with him because he makes me laugh and no one near me likes me anyways.
I just kinda feel as if I’m the clingy younger girl to her older boyfriend. I know he loves me too but I just don’t know.
This is probably stupid but if anyone has advice please give me some I could really use it.
Have a lovely day!
@Evvieskate hi there. first of all, are you comfortable being in a relationship with someone who openly wants to do things with other people outside the relationship between you two? i think this is a good starting point to ask yourself.
I mean not really my heart basically sank when he asked and I just love him I mean we do all the things we can when we live apart I mean he full on types I love you not ily and the same with goodnight
@Evvieskate
Open relationships are usually for those who are more adventurous and extroverted people. And also open relationships is a thing because of either partner wanting to find something “new”. I don’t know how to explain it well… Most relationships goes like this: the starting stage where they have a lot of things to talk about and it’s a refreshing experience. But as time goes by, there’s lesser and lesser things to talk about or even, not thrilling enough. Thus, open relationships are a thing. Just note this, open relationship is a mutual thing. If you are not comfortable about it and you just reluctantly accepted it. Reconsider it. It’s better to do what prioritizes your well being first! All the best yeah! 💕
