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How do you know your worth?

User Profile: drzombienoodles
drzombienoodles August 12th, 2025

I know I don’t know or believe my worth as a woman. Like I know I have it I just don’t believe it or have the confidence of someone who knows their worth. I am drawing to people I know are kinda bad for me and that I deserve better but for some reason, I still obsess over those people. I just can’t shake that feeling of wanting them to want me. I can’t shakes the fact that I know it’s toxic and unhealthy but I still want it. This is less about knowing my worth but how do I FEEL and BELIEVE my worth?

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User Profile: goodkiddmadcity
goodkiddmadcity August 12th, 2025

I’m going through something similar, and while I feel I have no helpful advice, at least you’re not the only one 😮‍💨🫩

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 12th, 2025

@drzombienoodles

You may not believe and feel your worth until you see you can do better then those who will be trouble and not Worth your effort will not be as attractive to you.   Of course we like to feel we attract people period.   Some in the type that will be bad for us ... know our worth and they seek us out to often try to improve their self esteem. 

Some of those types have what seems like crisis after crisis .... I have known many women who like that type because they like the drama.        Some stable and successful people who will appreciate us are also boring...