@Maeebae99
I think it's normal to want to live someone and be happy but there's a danger of rushing it, before you fully know someone, their morals, what they want from life, and if you align.
It's important to take time to build on things or inevitably this will keep happening and ghosting hurts 🩷
You might feel deep down you don't deserve it, so cut it off because you think they might, so you get in there first 🩷
@Maeebae99
wanting to love someone and loving someone is different.
I had 2 great loves in my life, and it takes time to know and learn about a person. When you truly love someone, you see the flaws, but when you focus or find a way out perhaps you are telling yourself this is not it.
No one can tell you how you will feel when it is real, but you will know and the small flaws will not bother you. we can have interest and feel we are falling for them but that is the basic attraction that grows cold much faster and flaws are glaring.