I feel like I need to get away
I am in a relationship with a boy for 3 or 4 years, an online relationship... I don't know, but we've had a lot of problems. I know it's normal, but I feel like I've run out of energy and I can't continue.
@silentbl0om
sometimes especially in online or long distance it is no longer working, and it is ok to break up with someone.
I will sit down with myself and think about the matter so that I don't rush into anything.
@silentbl0om
Dear Beloved,
You may discuss the painful experiences you have been going through with your partner. It may be better to leave than to stay in a relationship that is causing you ongoing pain.
At the same time, it is not wise to disappear or end a relationship without communicating with your partner. You can communicate your thoughts about ending the relationship with him and also try to understand his perspective on the situation.
It is not wise to make a decision without carefully considering it. A rushed decision may later cause sadness or guilt if you feel that you made the wrong choice. Sit with yourself and reflect on why you should or should not continue the relationship. What is hurting you? Can these issues be resolved? What do you want from this relationship? Why do you feel exhausted? Is this temporary exhaustion? Is it something you are experiencing personally, or does he also feel the same way?
I want you to make a decision that takes you closer to peace and one that you will not later feel was the wrong decision.
Take care of yourself, Beloved. 💕
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond to me and share your thoughts. I really appreciate your advice and the way you looked at the situation. Your words gave me something to think about, and I’ll take some time to reflect on everything before deciding what I want to do. Thank you again for listening and for your thoughtful response🤍.
