Is it a bad thing
Is it bad for 27 years old girl to not have a boyfriend ever.Even though she do see some guys that talks to her but she doesn't see those who are worthy of her time and dedication.
@humorousChestnut1211
It is not bad to not have relationships by any set age.... What i would question is that if you talk with some guys ... what are you basing your not worth your time or dedication on?
Looks / job or did you really get to know these guys deep down?
@toughTiger6481 thanks sometimes their character and attitude.though I do check this at first stage of having conversation.
@humorousChestnut1211
I have had 2 great loves in my life and both if i had made judgments at first would never made the cut.
Both took a bit of time to see the person there ... both i was not instantly attracted to but as i got to know them they became more attractive in my eyes.
many people put on an act or tries to fit a mold at first ... attitude is an item that takes time to really see .... first impressions do not always work.
Thanks for this.
@humorousChestnut1211
You can't select someone for how good they are without getting to know them first, you can only disqualify people based on red flags. And then out of the people who don't have red flags seek out their qualities and find who works best for you. No one even knows you well enough to know your true value so you can't expect it to be so quick and easy with others.
@humorousChestnut1211 it's absolutely not bad if you've never had a relationship - no matter what your age is. What's important is for you to stay true to yourself and the things you value. If you can't find a person that seems to be right for you, or even if you're simply not interested in that kind of relationship, it's ok. There are no fixed rules about this, you should just follow your heart and search for happiness in whatever form fits you, relationship or not.
Hi @humorousChestnut1211
No, it's not a bad thing at all for a 27-year-old woman to not have had a boyfriend yet. Everyone's journey in relationships is unique, and it's important to prioritize finding a meaningful and compatible connection rather than rushing into a relationship. It's perfectly okay to wait for someone who truly values and respects you, and who you feel a genuine connection with. Remember, quality is more important than quantity.
