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User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 November 13th, 2024

My long distance is not talking to me much anymore and im tired of the relationship

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User Profile: Clio9876
Clio9876 November 16th, 2024

@Kendallj28

Hi there

I'm sorry you are feeling lonely. Long distance relationships can be so hard. And if the person isn't talking to you much, it's understandable to feel some loss or rejection. And this can make anyone sad.

Your feelings are valid and you are allowed to feel them.

User Profile: joyfulGrace2418
joyfulGrace2418 November 16th, 2024

Hi Kendall! 

I credit you for working to keep the long distance relationship and make it work. Distance can be so difficult. It is hard hen there is a lack of communication, as typically negativity fills the void. Not saying this is relevant for your situation, but when I am upset about the lack of communication I find looking at things from there perspective can change my thoughts. Are they working extra hours? Taking a grueling course? Etc etc

With that said, I find your feelings very valid, and certainly understand why you would feel this way. Good luck! 

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User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 OP December 1st, 2024

He is working three jobs and soccer but before he works he goes to the pool or the mall but i wish he could talk to me before he works

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User Profile: Joccey01
Joccey01 November 17th, 2024

Why not try knowing why he/she doesn't have time for you as before

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User Profile: Kendallj28
Kendallj28 OP December 1st, 2024

Unfortunately he’s working three jobs and soccer and time difference

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User Profile: mustangnite
mustangnite November 18th, 2024

I’m in the very same boat

User Profile: jesander
jesander December 1st, 2024

im really sorry. are you tired of it because hes been distant? or is the relationship just not making you happy overall?