Meeting new person maybe or not in family .. complication
hi, so I have some issue need honest advice. My brother in law is going through a divorce proceedings. He kept where he stayed all a secret I thnk his family and my husband knows nt sure. So he got another girlfrnd now it's been within 5 months of divorce proceeding. I am not sure if it's affair or legit relationship after breakup started. Issue is my husband wants me to meet them and chitchat happily. I kind of feel nauseous when he had two kids and leaving them he found this girl. I feel very sorry and sad for these kids. I have heard sister in law cry in phone once. being a mother It is breaking my heart. But my husband has its own side of truth telling she cheated etc . I don't knw wat to do... should I meet her or nah?
@praticalSummer13
I do not think you need to meet her now.
You have the right to feel this if marriage broke up and father left his kids too for this girl.
Perhaps down the road when it looks like this will be long term you would be willing to meet her then. It is hard to not take sides and try to be supportive to people who for a long time were family.
