My husband seems more happy talking with other women
Am I just boring? I believe I might be overreacting. I am autistic and when we are out to dinner he isn’t really talkative to me. But when he is on VR chat talking to friends and girls, he is very talkative. Please let me know if I am just too paranoid. He had porn addiction in the past. I am new to this site.
@Anniethehyena
I believe you are overthinking this and you are not alone in this type of thing. It is not about being boring either.
The reality is when in a long term relationship we lose the ability to really talk with each other... ........either we know ( or think we do ) their views and likes or dislikes on things we know and heard many times ......... their stories of "one time this happened "
When we first meet someone the slate is clean and we can discuss almost any topic etc. It for example is more fun and engaging when i talk with someone who has different views or experiences. I have had things where I suggest something get a head nod then when someone else mentions same exact thing my spouse is " we should try this"
I used to get mad that when i said it did not sink in.
What would you like to talk about if out ?
How often if you start to talk at dinner it goes back to work/ schedules/ kids or pets / chores that need to be done around the home type of things .......talking to someone else starts to sound more fun.
