My recent ex of 10 years has started speaking coldly and bluntly towards me.
I'll try keep this short. But basically we currently live together, she was the one who initiated the break up, but we currently still live together. A couple weeks after the break up, she told me she was seeing someone (this reopened the wound) I'm currently looking at places to move out but I am not rushing because I want somewhere decent if I'm going to be there a while. At first she was kind towards me, trying to joke with me. But now she is very snappy at me, most things I say to her get a dry blunt reply and a few times she told me I'm pissing her off (the most recent was she had slept on the couch and I offered to sleep there for the night, this seemed to of *** her off) it's so jarring going from being close and speaking everyday, to hardly speaking and when we do it feels cold and off. Sorry just needed to get this off my chest.
@rationalBeechwood8031
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Im glad you could get it off your chest.
Its hard to go from this to what you have now.
I do think your own space would be better, to protect your mental well being in the future and your general mood.
I genuinely hope that you get sorted and move forward and meet someone new, you deserve to be happy 💜💕
@rationalBeechwood8031
Have you considered that with your current living situation she might has thought it would be resolved by now. being nice and supportive then becoming impatient and short sounds like this.
Perhaps the person she is communicating with is putting pressure on her as they may feel the continued living together is a threat to their relationship. It is hard to move on when your past is still in the same place.