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User Profile: inventivePineapple3023
inventivePineapple3023 March 14th, 2024

So a month ago I started dating this guy. We had talked for two months dated for one. We hung out every week for hours. I really really did like him. Suddenly he started acting off and ignoring me. He seemed upset. After a month of us dating and everything going well, he suddenly broke up with me last night and said he didn’t have romantic feelings for me at all. He still wants to be friends with me. But it’s hard because I genuinely liked him. I sit with him and his friends at lunch and I’m embarrassed. I still want to be friends with them I do. But I feel it’s gonna be awkward now that we aren’t dating. Although I wonder if it’s more embarrassing that he broke up with me after a month and the reason was “he didn’t like me”. The problem is I really liked being apart of his friend group. I don’t have many friends myself, and I finally fit in somewhere. And I really like his one friend and I don’t wanna lose her as a friend because of us breaking up. I just don’t know what to do

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User Profile: ASilentObserver
ASilentObserver March 21st, 2024

@inventivePineapple3023 I am sorry to hear you're feeling pretty hurt after this breakup. You were really into him and felt like you fit in with his friend group. Now you're worried about losing those friendships too. It can be tough when relationships end, especially when it feels sudden. How are you feeling about things right now, Pine?

 
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User Profile: inventivePineapple3023
inventivePineapple3023 OP March 21st, 2024

I haven’t been doing well. Despite the fact that we agreed to stay friends, we haven’t talked like at all. He was the one who brought up being friends, but he ignores me when he sees me and acts like he doesn’t know me. I don’t know what to do tbh

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