No sex, no romance, just fighting
I feel like I hate my husband. We no longer sleep in the same room, haven’t had sex in over 10 years, we have nothing in common. I don’t like spending any time with him because he has a hair trigger temper and acts like a 5 year old boy. He embarrasses me by eating like a pig and lacks any sense of social etiquette, no consideration for me, but bends over backwards for others.
I just lock myself in my room for days so I don’t have to see him and put up with his explosive demeanor.
I don’t have the resources to leave or I would have long ago.
He is also an alcoholic and showers once a week!
Just venting. Thank you.
@greenPeach552
you are not alone... others in similar shoes... alcoholic says a lot to me because even though mine quit drinking the damage is done. the hair trigger and anger are more about them disliking themselves than anything else. i too have walked in similar shoes and is is lonely / frustrating and i wonder how did i end up this way...
hope that helps that others can relate, truly relate.
@greenPeach552
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
How lonely 🥺
I'm glad you could come here and vent and be honest and get it off your chest 💖
Omg, I could not imagine.
I'm sorry your going through this, I hope you find peace.
I am sorry you are going through this. An Alanon meeting would be a great place to get support for his alcoholism. Have you tried marital counseling?
Thanks for sharing your story with us. I really feel sad for you and your situation but as I read it I also knew you know what you need and how you want a relationship to be. I believe in you.
I wish you luck. ♡
I can feel you. Being someone who values relationship but ends up being alone , I totally know the pain of being lonely or rather not being loved. I also feel not loved from last 10 years or so...
I can feel you. Being someone who values relationship but ends up being alone , I totally know the pain of being lonely or rather not being loved. I also feel not loved from last 10 years or so...