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Overthinking or Jealous

User Profile: CharmingHumanKidaa
CharmingHumanKidaa February 8th

I'm not okay, my fiancé and his female coworker are friends and I'm not okay. Three years ago I read his message and they have been talking because they work together. They talked a lot and it's bother me cause she said she's single at that time and me and him was going through it he even said I'm single. After years later, they still talk to each other, they on social media together but they haven't flirt. Especially, now she's married and I'm engaged. So, I ask him is she the reason why you purpose to me I get no ro response and do you think she's prettier than me again no response. Then he said there's nothing going on between us I wish you could trust me. I want to but I can't. As long she is "friend" I can't accept it. Especially, he met after me, maybe I am overthinking or jealous. There's some chemistry and I want to trust him. I spoke to the girl and she said ain't nothing going on. Why I feel like I be okay with these two be friends?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 February 9th

@CharmingHumanKidaa

In three years of being friends nothing happened...

she went on to get married, and he got engaged to you.  maybe you should ask yourself why you are so bothered.  pushing the thought of her or me thing you will only hurt your relationship.

I feel you might be overthinking and it looks like jealousy. Believe in your relationship,  Believe in him because once you do not .... everything becomes a threat.   

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User Profile: CharmingHumanKidaa
CharmingHumanKidaa OP February 9th

It's about her and it's bothering me. I guess they texted each other. Even though, nothing happens and I think her appearance. She's look pretty and I look hopeless. I hope everything will be better soon.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 February 9th

@CharmingHumanKidaa

Honestly.

Nothing has happened.

And he is allowed to have friends.

I think, you have to have trust in a relationship or else you'll have nothing and you'll push him away 💚

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User Profile: CharmingHumanKidaa
CharmingHumanKidaa OP February 9th

I agree with you, I don't know what it's about her to me, and I know he's very committed to me I'm very grateful I know I am jealous of her I guess the appearance and I'm working on my self esteem as well.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 February 10th

@CharmingHumanKidaa

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