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User Profile: Shnnnn
Shnnnn March 26th, 2025

I’m in so much pain right now. I posted here a few days ago about the cheating issue with my boyfriend. It's been a year since he cheated on me, and we’ve never been okay after that. We always argue. I kept bringing up his mistakes, and he asked for space so we could breathe and try to bring back the love we once had. But yesterday, I found out that he’s been telling people we’ve already broken up. So, I confronted him, and he said that we’ve already broken up. I also discovered that he’s been chatting with another girl. I kept asking him why, and I told him to block her. He replied, "Why would I block her? I’d block you either. Why do you have so many demands? We're not together anymore." I can’t contain the pain I’m feeling right now. I can’t eat; I don’t feel hungry. I love him so much, but why does he keep hurting me and betraying me? I don’t know what to do. I feel like I have no point to continue in life. 😭😭😭😭

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla March 26th, 2025
@Shnnnn I'm so sorry about this. He's treated you awfully and does not deserve all the love you feel for him. He was very clear: for him, you two are no longer together. Hard as it is, it's time for you to move on and look past him. You deserve to be respected, and he was openly direspecting you, meaning that whatever love you thought he had for you was actually not real. I know you feel lost and confused, but your value as a person is not determined by him. You have value on your own, and right now the best thing for you would be to focus on self care and find things to live for beyond him. One day, when you'll be healed from this wound, you'll be able to find love again, true and loyal love. But right now, you must hang on, be strong and take care of yourself. Don't hesitate to seek support from trusted people in your life, or even consider therapy to learn how to process all of these emotions. Just don't give up. You deserve so much better!
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