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User Profile: secretKitten954
secretKitten954 October 3rd, 2023

So I just want to know if I’m overthinking this or not I told my boyfriend I want him to reassure me as I overthink a lot , and he has been sending me long messages about how he loves me .

I found out last night it was from a love quote account on ***, am I suppose to be mad at this . He has been copying it words for words and sending it to me .

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 October 3rd, 2023

@secretKitten954

I think it is fine many people may do that or lines from a movie etc... I am sure he meant well... and just was not good at coming up with many things to write....

the fact he looked up and did this is an improvement on some who do not even try.

User Profile: positiveLove546
positiveLove546 October 4th, 2023

I do not see the issue. If he is treating you right but finding quotes that do express how he feels about you in their words. It is his way of making sure you’re still be reassured the way you need it.

User Profile: Katsuddon
Katsuddon October 4th, 2023

I don’t think you should be mad at this. He may just not be the best at writing and he’s doing his best to show how much he loves you. If you don’t feel comfortable about it then you can talk to him about it :).

User Profile: Realist85
Realist85 October 4th, 2023

You aren’t overthinking it but i wouldn’t be mad at him. Maybe the words he sent were genuinely how he felt but just took the easier route. I would stop seeking his reassurance and just take things day by day as long as you are happy.