Sex is basically gone after wedding
We’ve met 3-and-something years ago. She’s older (43F), I’m younger (33M). She has a teenage daughter. We love each other, and everything is fine, yet one thing. We didn’t live together first years, and moved together only this February, couple months before the wedding. Some sexual disruptions start happening last December. Then, after moving together, the intimacy became even more occasional. And then she broke her leg 5 days before the wedding. Now she’s okay, but since then (mid May) we had sex like… 4 times?
I feel myself a bit abandoned and undesirable. Dunno what to do. We’ve got some agreement on open relations, but I don’t want other women — I want my wife.
@pioneeringDog5265
Have you had a discussion about this with her? Many people have different libidos and are fine with a slowdown in frequency. There is no one answer.
People sometimes talk around the subject rather than addressing it specifically. You cannot find an answer if you do not ask the right questions. Telling her how you feel about it is a positive step.