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Should I unblock him?

User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 April 15th, 2025

I'm torn about unblocking him on social media. My friend thinks it would be good for him to see what he's lost, but I'm still getting over him. Any advice?

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla April 20th, 2025
@intuitiveClementine8108 this should be about you, not him. You'll only be truly over him once his feelings, opinions and experiences will no longer be your concern. If, as you say in a previous comment, you are still not over him, it would be healthier for you to keep him blocked so that you don't have to continuously wonder if he's looking at what you do or not. The further from your mind you keep him, the sooner you'll heal.
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User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 OP April 22nd, 2025

You're right thanks, but I'm being desparate.

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User Profile: Shamrock1993
Shamrock1993 April 21st, 2025

Don't do that Clementine. He already knows what he lost trust me! It's time for you to move on and find a better guy than him.

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User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 OP April 22nd, 2025

It's hard to move on but thanks

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User Profile: Malteffs
Malteffs April 21st, 2025

The best revenge is no revenge. Let him wonder and go crazy over the lack of closure. That will force him to ask himself what he did wrong. If you give his behavior attention, you might as well be enabling him and telling him he hasn’t done anything wrong. Live for yourself. Forget all about him, he is completely irrelevant to your life now. Do not give him the power of having access to your feelings and psyche, especially if he has abused that privilege before. I don’t know any of you or which side is “wrong”, but I’m assuming he messed up and you seek a feeling of revenge. Hostile revenge is not what you need. The revenge you need is a backbone and to stop living for other people and their opinions. Live for yourself, let all your feelings out, go do your hobbies and get in contact with all your friends. In a couple weeks or months you will realize that he is just a man, not your everything. Hopefully my advice applies to your situation, and if not, I do apologize. I wish you the best

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User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 OP April 22nd, 2025

When I see him with someone else my heart ached , that's why it's hard for me to move on

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User Profile: Hunyah1
Hunyah1 April 21st, 2025

Is he married to another person? Did he yell at you by any chance

Keep him unblocked but don't say it to him it's loss

show him

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User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 OP April 22nd, 2025

No he's single, and he didn't yell at me but he prioritised his ex more than me

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User Profile: Hunyah1
Hunyah1 April 21st, 2025

whatever you don't go trying to prove yourself use resvre psychology the more you show you are worth it the more the guy won't take

don't show anything work on your goals then show him

User Profile: Hunyah1
Hunyah1 April 21st, 2025

whatever you don't go trying to prove yourself use resvre psychology the more you show you are worth it the more the guy won't take

don't show anything work on your goals then show him

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User Profile: intuitiveClementine8108
intuitiveClementine8108 OP April 22nd, 2025

Thanks for replying

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