Sometimes your own family play against you
What one can do while going through Fear anxiety depression and GAD sickness besides other sickness at the age 77 and now Disabled wife 72 having her fractured kneecap surgery and now bedridden. My both married sons not see eye to eye with each other. Earlier I was living with my elder son, whole my life but recently due my mental sickness at Behavioral Hospital, I may have said some words to some of the Psychaitrist while he treating me. He may have misunderstood or miss interpreted my words to my son which furiated my son and he disconnected with us, when we were short stay with our younger married son having some conflict with his wife who started abusing, misbehaving with us, hiding n missing our meals and other necessities of life. We are now completely help less. We clarified and apologized sevral times to our son also infront of some family elders but now he took it as an opportunity to separate us and now we both devastated and sad and my anxiety n depression replicated and I m on my bad and my wife at her bad crying and praying Almighty God to help us. Some of our own relatives started enjoying our worst situations and create more misunderstanding about us. We don’t know what to do.
Our younger son trying his best to help within his limited income plus his wife behaviour with us.
@considerateChestnut4179
That's heartbreaking.
I genuinely will pray for you both to be reunited and for things to be sorted out and you and your wife's needs put first , you don't deserve to be mistreated 💜💖
@considerateChestnut4179 Hello, I just came back today to respond to your message here. I read your message yesterday, and I thank you for posting it. My mom is elderly and my older sibling who lives closer to her does not want to talk or see her. My mother is old now and she is having a health issue. It pains her greatly to go through this refusal. My older sibling has never got along with her and is also difficult with other people; we believe she has a personality disorder. I live too far to go visit my mom often so I do what I can; in the meantime I try to talk with her, be in touch or contact her. I am so sorry for what you are going through and I can just imagine the pain of being betrayed by family; my mother says that she was not really accepted by some other family members also. As her daughter I really do not know what else I can do and I wish I could do more; My mother is financially ok and she lives with a caregiver in another country, luckily she found the right one and she can afford to have her live with her for now. I am very sorry and I hope you are able to get external help even if it's not family
Bro, These are the realities of life and we never thought about. I already gave up all what we had to our both children undocumented and they now claim that I have not given them anything in my life. I never argue on it bcz it not worth , We believe in Allmighty God and leave it up to him. My mental sickness my wife recent Surgery of her knee cap made us both handicap, so trying other help resources but not able apply or gat them informed properly.
Let us see what’s going to happen, my mind is not working and I’m lost,
Thanks for your concerns and comments.