This is rough
Currently 36 weeks pregnant and really struggling with my husband being there for me the way I need him to. I’m super open with communication and make things very clear, yet my husband still doesn’t get how to be there for me. I genuinely don’t know what to do, he is a great guy and means well but I feel so alone during pregnancy emotionally and mentally. Help
@tilly11
It is very hard when we are going thru things like pregnancy or other health things and feel alone. You say you are open with communication about what you want or need. Are you getting clear communication back? Is he trying in his own way but not like you want or expected ?
I have had instances where I felt clear but was assuming whomever i was speaking to were seeing it from my view.
He isn’t doing it in his own way. It’s going over his head. I feel so defeated.
I completely agree and told him we really need couples therapy but he says we cannot afford it at this time. We are the type to fight for each other always but this has been so difficult and it doesn’t seem to have any end in sight and I don’t feel like I can handle this anymore. This is all too much.
