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Today is my birthday and I’m healing from my breakup.

User Profile: healme3
healme3 September 21st, 2023

So it’s my birthday I had a terrible breakup and currently trying to heal from it. It’s sad that I will be spending my time all alone and depressed.

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou September 22nd, 2023

Hey hey @healme3 welcome to the community. Breakups can be so difficult, I'm really proud of you for reaching out here for emotional support and company. Please know you're allowed your time in processing your emotions and healing from your loss (of a relationship).

Happy Birthday to you, I understand it doesn't feel "happy" to you currently, but birthdays are reminders we've made past an entire year, no matter what it took from us we persevered and you do deserve to celebrate you for that, so I hope you can take out some time for yourself today and do something that makes you feel *you*, makes you feel better, it could be as simple as treating yourself to your favorite food or visiting a place you love, anything that *you* like, because you deserve to treat yourself with kindness and love everyday, a little more, today! 💖

Also yay *virgo high five*

User Profile: ppac
ppac September 23rd, 2023

@healme3 My birthday was yesterday and spent it crying about a fight with my boyfriend. I don't have much words for you as I am not so good right now, but same. birthdays are good to have "your day" to celabrate and everything. But it shouldnt be and inner obligation to have an amazing day, if that obligation is just making us feel worst. it's just another day in our lives. tomorrow will be better. and we will also have great days that are not our birthday (fortunately). And that is ok. Be brave and time heals <3

User Profile: MistyMagic
MistyMagic September 23rd, 2023

@healme3 Happy Birthday

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You can be with us!


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User Profile: healme3
healme3 OP September 24th, 2023

Thankyou so much to all the lovely wishes. I felt very alone. It would be nice if I get friends from here❤️