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The main reason I joined 7cups is because of how my spouse's actions are affecting me.
I typed alot of things here but deleted because I didn't want to trigger anyone.
I'm not sure if I can post just anything, as everything is very sensitive and I don't want to put anyone in distress.
So if here's someone I can chat to that'll be able to give me advice regarding the addiction of a spouse.. Because it's really affecting me and my marriage and kids.
Or if I can post here and mybe get responses from people that have experience from it.?
Will be highly appreciated, thanx
@zaaab
I think if you have issues you can try listeners but may not find one that can openly relate... or you can write in forum and get multi replies that someone or a few someones could give you things to think about or may have had similar issues.
Many people have vented and shared many things and if you put the TW thing on it i honestly think more people look at it.
Will look into this, thank you🌸
@zaaab I am a listener here with experience in marital issues and addiction. Please feel free to message me and we can chat more on this. I am available online Arabian Standard time 8 am to 4 pm Sunday to Thursday
Thank you 🌸will make contact
@zaaab
Hello. I have the same problem with my spouse. We live like strangers. He has changes so much since we got married that he is a completely different person. He doesn't even remember information from yesterday. I spend all day taking care of my kids (they are older), and he has no idea what's going on in their lives. The kids and I try to stay away from him as much as possible. His behaviors and actions are stressing me out and increasing my depression. My reason for joining 7 Cups was to find others in similar situation that I could talk to. I haven't found a solution to this problem yet, but I feel like I'm running out of time. I wish you strength and peace. Aloha
Breaks my heart to hear about your situation.
Really not an easy thing especially because it's the person who are suppose to be building a life with, yet there U are.. Building by yourself. Atleast that's how I feel.
Talking about it does help, hearing a different perspective also helps.
Wishing all things good for U and ur kids🌸🤗
Hi, maybe I’m late but I would totally be down to chat about this! My fiance also has addiction issues, and I don’t get triggered easily. I also grew up in a home with an alcoholic, so I unfortunately have my fair share of experience with other people’s addictions.
If you still need someone to talk to, you can message me any time.