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What should i do with my girlfriend's ex?

User Profile: Phirapea
Phirapea June 6th

Hi, this is basically a sequel to my last thread

So to tldr from that, She had a *** ex that have done bad things with her and she for some reason wanted to reconcile with him back. Out of trust and respect of her feelings, i allowed it with some boundaries. Although i have talked about the discomfort to her. We're also in a long distance relationship which really made everything difficult—

Now it's still going on, she has been breaking alot of the boundaries more often, Talking about him more often. Which made me really uncomfortable and made me feel compared and jealous. And i've made it clear for her everytime. But last argument, she called my feelings as ″***″ and even called me sensitive because i kept whining about him. And of course, i feel really heartbroken from it. It feels like my feelings are being unheard.

Now she's practically became closer to him despite her telling me she won't. Her vent channel seems to be hinting to it too.

″Comfort is comfort, no matter who you got it from am i rite?″

″***, it feels so wrong. but i can't help feeling touched by it″

″No wonder he likes cars″

*Screenshot of his chat*

What should i do with her? I've taken a break from her for one day.

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 6th

@Phirapea

Oh no..

It seems like there is 3 people in your relationship..

Disrespecting your boundaries is a issue that will unlikely go away.. Why isn't she spending this time with her ex talking to you instead? 

I hope you find a balance in your life that works for you and her..

User Profile: RedOceanSun
RedOceanSun June 6th

Her intentions are very deep, probably she herself dosen't realise them.  If you want to sink into it, go ahead. If you want to build your own world, choose your own way. Yes, its not easy but can be rewarded. 

User Profile: aTinyDroplet
aTinyDroplet June 6th

@Phirapea she's not worth the effort.. sorry if that's rude but yk I am not wrong