What’s on my mind…
I’ve been feeling lost recently in my relationship. Everyday was so perfect the first 2 ish months now I feel like a shift in my brain happened and I’m the only one feeling this way. I said I love you too fast and said I need time for that now I’m struggling to show any sort of affection. I still care about him deeply and wanna be there for him. But I can’t seem to show further affection anymore as if I’m not attracted anymore or I’m easily annoyed by him. I also am not sure if he’s the right person for me. We fought a lot in the first 3 months and it was weird because it was the so called honey moon phase.
Valentine’s Day is soon and I’m worried I don’t know how to go about this. I just know to be honest with him. It’s just tough do I buy something for him how do I act on the most romantic day ever when I can barely show anything to him.
@butterflyy3
be honest with yourself and him.
IF you know now you said "I love you" too soon and it was not real now you want to feel what you pretended was there. I think many say it not only to make partner happy but to convince themselves.
It is early on to break free if you want to. Maybe when you said it you thought things will be fine when they catch up but now you see it was not real.
