Will I ever be worthy for love ?
Right now I think a lot of being not be able get love. Wherever I go, either it's college, home, parties, vacation and gym, I always miss that I didn't get any person to love me. I am 20 year old and I did get rejected by more than 4 times by girls till now and didn't get any girlfriend. I feel like i am not worthy of the love. At the time of life I am feeling this, so much. Even my best friend sometimes mocked me up that I didn't get any girl. I try to do my best but still girls rejected me. And now at the point of life I am feeling like i am not worthy of love and I won't be able to find love in life ever. I am feeling so lonley at this time. People say this is the best time of person's life. But I didnt get anyone. So I don't think I will be able to get love later. I try to focus on myself, try to do gym, did work on myself, improved grooming. But sometimes you need someone to love you or so you can love someone. It feels so unworthy that at this age I am still single. I don't know what is the problem. I tried everything I could, cause I am introvert I tried to talk to girls and tried to be more present in social environment but It doesn't work. And now I am thinking there is not any single girl at this time in the world cause everybody is taken now. I feel so alone need some help about my situation.
@exuberantTalker9747@exuberantTalker9747
Love is not something that happens so quickly for most.... when people are actively searching it is often that they feel it is alluding them .... you are far to young to have such catastrophic thinking about it.
while doing things like engaging more in social situations may increase your chances it is not instant instead of focusing on the end game of someone to love and love you back... start with making a friend and building on that.
Focus on other things in life .... when you least expect it you can and will find something and there is no time frame of i must have love by this age or this life event or it will never happen.... that sort of thinking clouds your ability to be in the moment.