help
my bf genuinely is getting pulled into the mindset i used to have. dont care, hopeless, passed off as acceptance. fueled by self doubt and fear. fear of vulnerability and reaction. as well as trying to accept it alone. this mindset genuinely almost killed me. not sarcastically or dramatically, like i genuinely tried to commit and sh. but the thing is he doesn’t want to tell me anything i’ve reassured him and been there for him for months and he is scared of my reaction. i’ve done nothing but be supportive. he gave up on me emotionally. i’m scared hes gonna leave me soon
@raspberryhoney3
I am so sorry you are facing this.
When you were struggling would a person saying or doing what you are have helped or would you have also pulled away? Does he know what you went through? Some people are afraid to take our hand worried they will pull us down too. when I was at my lowest the help offered was not taken and logically i could not explain why except I needed to dig out myself.
