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User Profile: onetry100
onetry100 August 6th, 2024

My ex gf broke up with me 3 weeks ago. we decided to stay friends, and i actually wanted this. I am doing okay some days but when she texts me and we talk a little, i end up asking myself why she wants this. she broke up with me and i honestly feel a little replaced because she made some new friends and spends all her time with them, just when she decided to break up. it seems from my pov that she is either always hanging out sleeping over and never alone either because she doesn't want to be lonely or because she might be developing feelings for one of them (she denies this). now the question is what would you do in this case? i want to keep a friendship and i would never open up to her about how i feel now. but i'm having a hard time moving on and dealing with feeling replaced. and why do you think she wants a friendship with someone she clearly didn't want in her life anymore?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 6th, 2024

@onetry100

So many possibilities only she knows ........ some may think you would be a backup and the door still open in case new things do not work..... or perhaps some think maintaining friendship shows how nice they are and "look even exes are friends" ...  or she thought it would work IMO it seldom does.