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User Profile: consideratePlane7144
consideratePlane7144 August 5th, 2025

I'm in a relationship with my bf since a year and 5 months. Around 6 months in the relationship he starts insulting me and accusing me of cheating. I never cheated and I won't ever. I've told him many times how hurtful it is, but it still continues. He says that in every relationships there is conflict and it would be stupid to end our relationship. I tried many times expressing how it makes me feel, but it happens at least every month. I'm mentally drained and tired. Just wanted to vent about my situation.

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla August 6th, 2025
@consideratePlane7144 you're right to feel the way you do, it's hurtful and draining to constantly have to defend yourself from someone who is supposed to have trust and respect for you. You did all you could you work on this, you explained how you feel and tried to make things better, but he's just refusing to treat you with the respect you deserve. He's right that conflict can be a normal part of a relationship, but if there's no will to understand your partner and work to make things better, if the effort is one sided, he's actually just making excuses while actually disrespecting you at every turn. At this point, I'm afraid there's not much to do but reconsider the relationship. It's not fair for you to endure this.
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User Profile: consideratePlane7144
consideratePlane7144 OP August 6th, 2025

Thank you for your message. It's hard to think clearly when your in it.

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User Profile: ipoopcats
ipoopcats August 6th, 2025

@consideratePlane7144

thank you for sharing ur story 

being accused and insulted regularly can really cause emotional harm. u deserve a relationship that has mutual respect and trust. i feel that your partner may be feeling insecure to the point where it's costing ur mental health.

my advice would be to set boundaries in the relationship. since it's a common occurrence for him to accuse u, u will need to draw a line that u will not tolerate his behavior anymore and u will need to tell him that.

i hope things will be better for u ♥️