Almost had a break in a relationship and I’m stuck.
My boyfriend and I had a bad argument to the point he called me crazy and knew this was very unhealthy. He wanted to have a break of a relationship. If he did, then he would’ve take my name off from the marines ball guest and he doesn’t know how long we needed a break. I refused since he asked me. I felt like maybe it was a choice or so? But I don’t like having breaks or space cause you never know what could happen. And I feel like a bad girlfriend for starting an argument that was suppose to be done from the start that he had to go to work at his services earlier. He got 3 hours of sleep and I really do feel bad. Having doubts about myself right now and everytime there’s something for tomorrow, I keep messing it up. What do I do? I wanna be a better gf.
Hey,thank you for sharing that...It really is complex,and I would feel the same way. It's hard to take breaks,anything could happen,you're right,and he would even take your name off from the marines ball guest,and that matters to you a lot. You're enough,and you're not crazy,your thoughts make sense. And you're not a bad girlfriend,you're focusing on both your and his well-being,it's human to have arguments sometimes. But I have a question...Why do you think he wants a break? For you it's insane,but if he asks for it so much,he must have his reasons...Also,do you think there are any chances to take a break at a time or in a way that doesn't make you lose the ball?