Am I becoming an Introvert?
I'm 20yr old guy, I'm noticing lots of changes in myself and in my personality. So many people told me, even I also feel that I'm changing. I used to be very nice, friendly, Happy, easy to approach and kind guy.
But from the last B'Day, I started being along, I'm losing my friends, I'm not making new friends and not even keeping good relations with the friends I have currently. Not talking to my brother, some of my friends, becoming rude, careless, harsh......and just want to be alone. I just don't want anybody to enter in my zone, Not able to focus properly, I don't know what's going on.
@sunnygupta19
I think it’s normal to do a lot of self-discovery in early adulthood. I also think it is okay to take some time for yourself and like being alone. However, I can also see how it would be worrisome if you feel it starts negatively affecting other aspects of your life. Hope you can be gentle and patient with yourself while you try to figure out where your head is at and why like to spend more time alone lately. <3💜
Peace & Namaste @sunnygupta19
What suddenly switched on your bday?
Did you feel different days leading up to that?
Did your family and friends show up for you on that day?
For anyone that did not come thru, did that switch your whole mindset?
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After my last birthday, I just feel that I should not hangout with my friends, I just stopped talking to them, I ignore them as much as possible.
the detachment of fam and friends is not a bad thing at all. That clarity of just living the way yah need to is healing ❤️🩹 deep healing. Life is wondrous and exploring it in yah own way is the wonder of it without having to answer to people. Embrace that journey send love when you can, keep your faith in your self, goals, and passion. Learn nu things along the way. Keep a humble mind along the way. Continue to love yourself & share lyv to others upon your journey in this life 💛💫
@sunnygupta19
As far as I know, there's always a reason why such a thing could occur. Especially if it turn you into someone that exhibit rudeness and harshness. Our behavior is a reflection of what we feel deep inside, whether we realize it or not. Maybe something happened during your last birthday. Or it brought up some memories from the past that you were trying to repress before. Or maybe other things happen. And I hope you can figure out what it is and feel more at ease with yourself again.
Feel free to share with us anything you have in mind or what you feel or the situation at that time if you want. Maybe it can help ease your burden a bit. Or maybe you can gain some perspective from the way other people see it. And you'd be able to confront and deal with the issue better.
