An insecurity one can have in romantic relationship is..
We all are insecure in our relationships due to one or other reasons. What is one insecurity you have in your romantic relationship? How one could minimize or deal with it?
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The moment you feel you need to start working on eggshells to please your partner and for them not to get angry is the moment you can start feeling insecure about your relationship.
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@ASilentObserver
1. What is one insecurity you have in your romantic relationship?
I have hesitancy in telling my boyfriend about my mental condition. I have depression and I have to inform him of this. He has a rather negative viewpoint about depression due to members in his family who have this malady. He struggled dealing with them and their individual issues that caused him a lot of undue stress.
2. How could one minimize or deal with it?
Taking the direct approach is probably the best way to deal with this issue. Although it is the most honest way it is also the hardest one to do. One feels insecure with having to inform the one you love that this is something you have been dealing with for some time. I wish there was another way but I am afraid this is the one approach that works the best.
@ASilentObserver the insecurity I have is that my husband is not sincere with me and can leave me. When ever he goes out without me i feel he had a date. I think like this because I found out multiple times that he was talking to girls romantically. I saw his messages and pics too. But he denies it and says i have been with you for 20 year why are you so insecure. He never says I love you to me or does not appreciate me unless I ask him.
So I feel I have reasons to feel this way.. but i do not want to as I feel stressed and cant enjoy anything.
Do not know what to do.
- I need help I've been worried in my relationship for a while now and I've been opened to her about my feelings and I've been giving my all and I'm not receiving anything back
