Best friend issues
I currently have one and only Best friend right now and issue is that I don't have to many other people in my life at this point that I haven't quite connected with as of yet to make new deep connections. Best friend is always so busy for me that I constantly feel on the back corner all the time lately and im 33 and I'm very lonely. I've been trying really hard to make added connections and even tried talking with my current bestie about it and haven't gotten much response to how I feel and haven't gotten to talk about it to make any progress into making it better
@Leanna3333
Hello,
I feel like many people can relate to you on this. It gets more difficult to make friends when we aren't in school anymore. I'm sorry you're feeling lonely. Do you have any hobbies/interest? I feel this is a great way to find like-minded people to connect with. 💜
I totally agree with you about that!! School definitely makes a huge difference to making connections i totally agree with you.
Even when you're college most of time people are to focused on just going to classes and studying and going home. I'm not currently in college right now but hopefully starting again in the near future.
I really love photography. Its something I've loved so much for years.
I know exactly how you feel! My current best friend and I are growing apart and it makes me sad. We’ve been friends 20 years. I’m 30 and I think I want to move forward and make deeper connections.
Do you feel like you and your friend have grown apart to the point where the friendship can’t be fixed?
sometimesI do feel like that our friendship can't be fixed i feel like that quite often. It aches my heart very much and is very very painful at times they're are no words to express how much it hurts. ❤❤❤❤❤ Hurts like ***!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm sorry for that you're in the same place I am. Feels better knowing that I'm not alone and not the only person experiencing this
As it goes for any relationship it takes effect on all involved to be a healthy one. Its important for all involved to have the same intentions in the relationship to make it better and be nurtured in the way it needs to be. That way that its getting attention that it needs.
@Leanna3333
no you are not alone and it is harder to make close friends in workplaces etc ........ shared interest or hobbies can help but honestly i have found just open up.....i used to be quiet and hold off expecting others to make the conversations etc i met a very outgoing person who just would say anything ... she showed me being open and sharing was a whole different way to be.........
Opening up is the easy part its the connection part that I'm experiencing that's the difficult part. I know that's important to be myself im not wanting to impress anyone I want to be loved for me without having to prove myself to people 💕💕💕💕
Still struggling to connect with people 💜
Very lonely and sad!
@Leanna3333 i have same issue so i divert my mind in some healthy activities so, you make your own choices its better for your health.
That's great idea ☺