I'm in a 10 year relationship but my partner is not getting depth in our love now.

Hi I'm 28 and I've recently moved out of my parents house to another city for work. Everything is nice and boring too.

The one thing I miss the most is my girlfriend. Little intro about her is she's a resident cancer doctor and she moved out of house 6 months ago too. All her education life she studied only in boarding schools and she's very independent.

Recently I observed she's not messaging me or updating me about her life as she says she's busy in work and study. And, she's also made sure that her main priority is her career right now and I'm next to that. Which I've said I'm ok with and me saying that is becoming a problem because she thinks she didn't belong to anyone.

I'm tired of her not showing affection and knowing from her that we've lost depth in our relationship. She has me friends who are her peers at work and have been socializing a lot. She picks up two guys to work in her car everyday and she's uncomfortable to talk to me around them. When I ask to update about her whereabouts she freaks saying that I'm being possessive, doubtful and controlling. She misunderstood my concerns. She didn't even like me saying her my girl.

I'm also afraid that she's seeing someone and that's why she lost interest in me 🥺. Next January we are 10 years old. I'm afraid that I'm ruining everything for her.