Marriage Problems
My husband and I have been spectated for a two years now we’re married and the marriage was for the wrong reason he cheated with someone and it made me relocate to another city after I moved and got situated he came back wanting to work things out and was still doing the same thing talking to female that was causing problems in our relationship so I told him he could go back where he came from after that I started saying someone else we both had just came out of a relationship but i definitely willing to see where it would lead to he was good in the beginning couple months in started seeing the red flags but over looked them so he took me out for my birthday found he was texting his ex the entire time and was talking about me so that’s how my ex came back into the picture we got married two days after well I had informed we married for the wrong reason and I start back talking to the other guy my husband really wanted things to work but the hurt from the cheating cause me to continue messing with the other guy so later on in the relationship I wanted to make things work with the husband went traveling came back bought two acres a land and a trailer for us to start fresh he wasn’t ready still now he isn’t he told me that he’s in love the other woman he met while we both couldn’t make up our minds on what we really wanted to do now he’s living with her 13 miles down the road from me and his got me all emotional and etc I really wanted to work things out with him but he say he’s happy but stills calls me and gives me money I don’t understand it I’m a emotional wreck cause I love him deeply just took me awhile to come back to my senses and now he’s not wanting it what am I to do we still married and he’s living with another woman and it hurts
@sandra39119
You said you may have married for the wrong reason ..........
whatever reason it was he is still looking and now living with someone else whom he has taken up with after getting married... .......... of course it hurts.
You moved started over and began seeing someone else too.........in a 2 year time frame make it sound like you were not all that sure before getting married......what was you perspective that marriage was a trial thing and divorce is easy.........
when i look at all the marriages that fall apart i see people who jumped in maybe they had been dating for a while and it seemed like the next step or whatever .........but those who are still shopping around clearly should not have married.
Detaching has been the hardest thing for me to do over the years how do I let go when I really don’t want to
@sandra39119
That can be difficult and many hold on but it does not work in the long run...
my advice is you cannot grasp new things if your hands are busy with a death grip on the past.
Thanks needed to read this 💯
@toughTiger6481- love the image of "death grip with the past" thank you
@sandra39119- sounds like a tough situation. You deserve someone who loves you without reservation. It is not easy to let go of past dreams and plans. Take care of yourself.
