Marriege problems
I’m not feeling good in my marriage 🥺
I don't feel that I or my partner are changing for the better, we fight all the time and now it's worse, before we could talk about it and solve it quickly, now it takes us two or three days to get back to normal, I'm desperate, disappointed. Today we fought over some nonsense of mine and he didn't even want to talk about it, we had a family event, I wasn't feeling well emotionally and I told him I was staying at home, he just said ok and left. I'm very sad
@melissaRamirez
Sorry you're going through this. I just came across your post here and thought I would respond.
What do you think is the focal point of your issues? I'm going through some things with our marriage as well, and it's been ongoing for years. But I can lend you and ear if you want to talk more about it. 😊
@melissaRamirez,
it's tough if communication becomes difficult. Before you know it, you get stuck in a pattern that eventually can destroy a relationship.
Have you ever considered relationship therapy? It can help to improve communication.
@melissaRamirez
I find when fights seem more often ..... and over petty items ..... and not easy to resolve...... maybe there are underlying issues or unresolved items?
a pattern or item maybe neither one of you can put your finger on........ but finding it is important if you want to work on marriage.
If u want to solve this problem permanently then u have to give him some space/relaxation and your self also. Dont talk much in these days. Just talk only if necessary. After some days/week. Everything will be all right.
