My relationship is ruining my health and mental stabilty
My boyfriend is so dramatic , over protective , jealous from probably everything , he changes every situation into a useless shallow conversation like asking about boys , talking about how I dress , being mad that I didn’t reply fast . When I tell him his flaws he keeps whining about “always being wrong” , why I always just see his flaws , why everybody doesn’t appreciate what he does . Sometimes he keeps screaming and shouting madly that I start crying and not knowing what to say to calm him down . I feel like he just gives me negative energy all the time he doesn’t enjoy the moment he must find something bad to ruin the whole thing . I am a person who likes positivity and always willing to be better and not to make problems but being with him is making it so difficult. But despite all of that I really deeply love him and I gave him a lot of chances and I want to give him more because he has other good things too . I’m wondering shall I step back and stop this relation or shall I keep trying ? By the way after every fight he keeps saying that he’s sorry and that he knows he’s wrong and I’ll try to change i love you don’t leave me and stuff like that ..
@understandingWheel1009
sounds like a rollercoaster emotions... And the way you told the story, I can tell you're indeed a positive person and hoping for the best result ♡
We all have our own 'weather system' , how our mood usually... unfortunately when we interact with others, their weather system may affect us that's why we feel emotionally drained after interacting with negative vibes.
Have you considered whether his temperamental character and seemingly insecurity is something you can change or not?