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One way I feel heard in a relationship is ___

User Profile: Hope
Hope October 20th, 2023

Hi everyone! I hope you are well. One of the best feelings in the world is to feel understood. Lets talk about that!

One way I feel heard in a relationship is ___

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User Profile: 4Jasmine
4Jasmine October 20th, 2023

@Hope

One way I feel heard in a relationship is not being criticized about speaking.

User Profile: RogueOne1983
RogueOne1983 October 20th, 2023

@Hope My husband gives me feedback acknowledging what I have said and then behaves in a way that shows he heard and understood me.

This doesn't mean he always does what I want there is a term for that "pool boy" they are fun and not spouses!

He takes what I said then does what he thinks is best to do IN LOVE.

That's a man!

User Profile: stars4stripes
stars4stripes October 21st, 2023

One way I feel heard in a relationship is by being acknowledged as a person. I sometimes can go on crazy rants or just blab on about stuff and i'm also v e r y touchy. It helps to be able to just rant and have someone listen and also either share the need to be touchy too or just like affection. [:

User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 October 22nd, 2023

@Hope
when there is a positive reciprocation of efforts.

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User Profile: RogueOne1983
RogueOne1983 October 22nd, 2023

@trueconfidant123 yes absolutely.

Someone said for a relationship quote, if they wanted to, they would.

I had to think about that then realized it is so true. How many times do people make and break promises, we cry and say this time they will do what I want and need. If they wanted to, they would. Helps separate the truly willing and well behaved from the playahs.

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 October 22nd, 2023

@RogueOne1983 

I wholeheartedly agree. Relationship isn't contract based. The reciprocation of actions and feelings has to come from within as f not after being reminded of.

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User Profile: charmingSky5972
charmingSky5972 October 22nd, 2023

@Hope

i heard in a relationship when we are at home having conversations or share similar interests and bond over them

User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham October 22nd, 2023

feeling that your feelings are validated and not met with a "yes/no" or "true/false" response.