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Should I tell my boyfriend about my dream?

User Profile: KaleighSkys
KaleighSkys June 10th, 2021

So a little background first, Ive been with my boyfriend for over years now, we have a very healthy and happy relationship and we are pretty open and honest about things that bother us and always work things out. So, this brings to my problem, I had I'll say a very passionate and vivid dream about one of our friends last night. I woke up feeling really guilty about something that didn't even happen. I'm probably over thinking but I had a similar dream about my boyfriend before we started dating. Now I would never cheat on my boyfriend, I love him to death and want to spend the rest of my life with him. I mean I think this friend that was in my dream is cute but I don't want to date him and I definitely don't want to break up with my boyfriend. I just cant get rid of this guilty feeling though but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend by telling him because it isn't how I actually feel. I don't know I'm just really confused and I'm just not sure how to get rid of this guilt.

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User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham June 10th, 2021

@KaleighSkys,

it's just a dream (and yes, I'm rather spiritual so I understand, but I don't do looking for clues where there aren't any).

So, why bother? Why tell? Why possibly create unnecessary mayhem?

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User Profile: KaleighSkys
KaleighSkys OP June 10th, 2021

Yea that's what I was thinking. I'm sure I won't think much about it after today, but the guilt today is just making me feel so bad. I know it was just a dream, I guess it's just one of those things I just need to forget and let go of.

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User Profile: sunnyBalloon5733
sunnyBalloon5733 June 15th, 2021

Honestly don’t tell him. Let some time Past and see if the feeling goes away. It will only start making him feel Weird and y’all both feel weird around that friend and probably cause more Problems. After all it was only a dream and it will NEVER happen unless you act upon it.