Weird relationship with ex
So, Thai is not my first post. Brief summary of the situation: my husband dated his ex for eight years and remained friends, they broke up a year before I met him and she treated me like she was expecting us to break up and him get back together with her.
It's been three years since then but I still don't trust her and she doesn't really act like a good friend for him most of the time (in my opinion). They still have a loan together, so she knows we are having money problems, which I'm not really comfortable with.
He normally wakes up earlier than I do and walks the dog. She lives a couple blocks away (which is not weird because the town is super small). This morning she asked him if he would like to have breakfast with her as they both wake up around the same time and she also offered to walk the dog with him.
I feel this is very weird and I am not comfortable with how she said it. She also said that we could walk the dog all together, after she said the first thing, this time including her boyfriend.
My husband told me she had told him about walking the dog all together tomorrow afternoon. But that is not the same thing she told him, I don't know if it's because he just didn't think of it as an option or what. But I don't like her and I don't trust her and I am afraid she wants to come between us.
Am I going crazy?
@bravePine7996
It is normal to feel concerned when an ex is around but it does affect emotionally too so i believe it would be a better option to communicate with your partner how you're feeling so he can maybe reassure you or try to spend less time with his ex
You too deserve to feel safe and stable in your relationship ❤️
I will not give you empty advice .. It seems to me that you already understand what needs to be done, just do not want to voice it. I've always been too proud to accept the fact that there is a third in a relationship. I have my account on a dating site like this one. I understand that I can attract the attention of many people as a relationship partner .. Therefore, I would leave if I saw disrespect for me, for my feelings and my principles.
