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User Profile: sincereComputer45
sincereComputer45 April 22nd, 2023

Bf of 3 years lost feelings for me because of my control issues. I didnt know i ws controlling, he jst randomly told mw one day he couksnt keep it in anymore and tried breakin up. I really wanted to improve so i asked him to give us a chance . Im working on myself now and we want to try to work out. 2 months have passed and his feelings havent changed, he just has more hope for us now as opposed to in feb/march since he isnt worried about issues anymore. Are we on the right track? is it too late?

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 25th, 2023

@sincereComputer45

That is a big change to make if you truly were not aware of your controlling tendencies ...... feeling deep down can change and i think it is a mistake to expect them to come back as they were as you both are changing ....with the working out relationship details hopefully a better stronger feeling comes into place.

IMO far too many expect after a Near break or breakup with work the same feelings return i think feelings evolve as we mature in a relationship and grow ...... if you both are waiting for same one that might not happen ........