Am i asexual or something else
I used to have porn addiction to certain type of videos and i remember at one point being sexually addicted to a porn video during middle school. But i had fantasies of my friends from middle school and had sexual arousal, porn addiction induced a lot of fantasies i think like porn addiction made it occur more and stronger when i saw my friends i had fantasies about in high school like when i was 16 i saw my old friend i have not saw in long time got aroused. I feel that excitement to those friends. In high school freshman year i had arousal to a few girls but not for long and i found this beautiful lady when i was 15 or 14 she was older grade i had physical attraction to her and romantic but not sexually excited at all. Im thinking why cant i not get sexually excited to new people in my school but i can get aroused to porn videos. Am i asexual or demisexual or something else or weird and crazy what do you think.
@Hyr349
Maybe you see that girl as something more than just a sexual object, you see her as a human you can emotionally connect with? You don't need to put a label on anything or yourself. You're still young, things change and what may have interested you years before, may not when you're older.
@Hyr349
I'm also addicted to pornography (trying to stop for a while), and I also suspected being asexual.
If you still see pornography, I suggest stopping for a while and seeing what persists.
Pornography is an external stimulus, it becomes harder to look into yourself and know who you really are.
This is just my suggestion, I hope it is useful to you.
@FreedomHawk as a asexual do you get aroused or romantic fantasies at all.
@tallHemlock5534
I did not quite understand your comment.
I'm a 22 year old man, I've never been in love, I tried several times to feel something for girls who were in love with me, I liked them as people, but nothing more.
I currently have a girlfriend, and we have an active sex life, but I do not feel very good during the act, but I do not see any problem doing that for her.
I get excited about pornography, and I have a foot fetish, but I do not feel aroused by the bodies of real women.
@FreedomHawk i feel romantic attraction for girls i can see i have something for like an attachment but not sexual arousing physically.
@tallHemlock5534 You're a romantic-asexual. I should be in the grey-area.
