New category: Fetish Support
At the request of the suggestion box, we've created a subforum for Fetish Support. This is a place of no judgment where you can share stories, ask questions, or seek support related to fetishes of any kind.
@Anomalia Good idea. I really don't have fetishes. I'm pretty normal, maybe even boring, but I really like that "no judgement, just discussion" kind of attitude.
Sadomasochist and confused.........
Hi I have in the last year or so discovered that I am a sadomasochist after being bored, displeased, lost, and unhappy in relationships and sexual partners. I have studied this, I am embracing it as who I am and knowing that it makes me feel better about myself, life, ect. No I do not know why I am this way, I don't know if it is a problem ect. I have not talked to anyone about this except my fiance that helps me to embrace it in our bedroom life to give me what I need. I am concerned in a way yes. However I right now looking for advice because my father recently past away (1 week ago) and the only thing I keep thinking about is being tied and flogged (beaten) till the internal pain goes away. I have never felt like I needed to feel this pain so badly till now. What is wrong with me? Why am I like this? How do I explain this to my fiance? And do I ask him to help me? As I said I'm knew to knowing this of myself however my mind, thoughts, wants, body ect all tell me daily I need this as much as I can get it. However I do keep it in A LOT thinking something is wrong with me. But since last week I feel I need it much worse and much harder, longer, ect. Any advice is appreciated. Please keep any negativity or judgment to yourself. Thank you.
I have been masterbating with my little sister underwear and i can't seem to stop help
@lavenderPineapple9574
Since you are an adult and I am a teen we are unable to have a chat but I think I can offer a bit of help here. When you find yourself with an unwanted sexual behavior it can be distressing for a large number of reasons. Here are some ideas that come to mind for you specifically:
- Somehow cutting off your avalibility to her underwear
- Obtaining different underwear to use that doesn't beling to anyone so it doesn't feel invasive
- Trying to cut down on the behavior alltogether
- Making an effort to only use the underwear half the time and then keep cutting down
If any of those sound like something you might be able to do I encourage you to give it a shot. Don't get discouraged and give in. Remember - you are you and all those parts you don't like are within your control. That by no means implies it will be easy, but it does mean you do have the ability to change. Let me know how things go!
My sister caught me masterbating with her panties and she told
@lavenderPineapple9574
That must be stressful. How are they handling it?
Is there a name for enjoying being dominant but also submissive?
When flirting with my boyfriend I often like to switch and I don't no why...
He goes along with it pretty well actually. I just want to know if there's a name and if it's normal
@Booklover95
People often will just call this being a switch - as in you are able to swith between the two or it just happens.
@UntilThen
Ohh never heard of that term, thank you! It really helps knowing :)
